1. Pamper yourself. Divorce is stressful and can take a lot
out of you, especially your self-esteem. Treat yourself to a weekend getaway or
spa day. Remember, you are worth it! —Marla Martenson
2. Stay connected ... to your female friends for company
and support, but stay clear of "male bashing." Keep the conversations
positive. Putting down your ex or rehashing old hurts will only keep you in a
negative and depressed state if mind. —Marla Martenson
3. Get out and try new things. Trying one new thing per
month will give you confidence in yourself and you never know who you might
meet. —Marla Martenson
4. Be a leader (not a hunter). A hunter is someone that
follows or pursues someone else. It is a short-lived ego boost for the hunted,
but ultimately not attractive (you're too easy to get). A leader, however,
creates value because he/she has a full life, his time is scarce. You are
perceived as being a challenge to get your time and attention, thus, making you
more desirable. —Divorced
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